As I hadn't gotten around to updating our blog, I felt it important to note that we ended up withdrawing Zane from ASA after the 3rd quarter. I felt he (we) were being harassed by the administrators of the school, and they were hell bent on doing everything they could to get us out. (Ex: Zane's behavior agreement had items he would get check marks for such as: running or chasing a pigeon.) Really? After going to the school and witnessing a group of kids playing keep away with a tennis ball, wrestling each other to the ground, and throwing the ball at each other as hard as they could; it was obvious to me we were in a lose-lose situation with this school.
So we obliged - and are much happier for it. It also makes me happy to know he wasn't expelled, though I still haven't gotten to see his school records from ASA.
It's a good thing that the EPA didn't have a Zero Tolerance Policy with regard to asbestos in ASA. Yep. Asbestos in Arizona School for the Arts. The school apparently didn't "know" they were supposed to have an asbestos management plan in place and the school tested positive for asbestos.
Oh lifes little ironies...
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Remembering Josh
I stumbled onto a blog today that made me weep for an hour. As a mother especially, I could connect with this mom and feel her pain and grief penetrate my being.
A year ago, their son Josh took his own life after facing expulsion from his school because of the Zero Tolerance Policy. His mother, a writer, used the blog as a way to work through her own questions/feelings/pain/memories, etc.
It made me think of Zane's tears and frustration. I can imagine how much harder it would be for an older boy. An older boy such as Josh, who was a regular, well-liked, good-looking kid who made a couple of pretty normal teenager mistakes and had his whole life in front of him.
How can we treat our children this way I wonder? Even now, the way Zane is being treated at school is breaking my heart. Where has our compassion gone? How have we stooped to treating our children like just a number? Just a test score? Just a drone who isn't supposed to ask any questions or ever make a mistake? They are kids.
I send virtual love and strength to Josh's family and understand the importance of Remembering Josh.
A year ago, their son Josh took his own life after facing expulsion from his school because of the Zero Tolerance Policy. His mother, a writer, used the blog as a way to work through her own questions/feelings/pain/memories, etc.
It made me think of Zane's tears and frustration. I can imagine how much harder it would be for an older boy. An older boy such as Josh, who was a regular, well-liked, good-looking kid who made a couple of pretty normal teenager mistakes and had his whole life in front of him.
How can we treat our children this way I wonder? Even now, the way Zane is being treated at school is breaking my heart. Where has our compassion gone? How have we stooped to treating our children like just a number? Just a test score? Just a drone who isn't supposed to ask any questions or ever make a mistake? They are kids.
I send virtual love and strength to Josh's family and understand the importance of Remembering Josh.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Zero Tolerance Stories of the Day
Mason Jammer:6-Year-Old Suspended From School for Making Gun With Hand
If this story doesn't make it glaringly apparent the the Zero Tolerance Policies in our kids schools is going WAAAAYYY overboard - I don't know what will... Jeesh.
Zero tolerance for federal mandates
If this story doesn't make it glaringly apparent the the Zero Tolerance Policies in our kids schools is going WAAAAYYY overboard - I don't know what will... Jeesh.
Zero tolerance for federal mandates
Friday, March 5, 2010
Some Recent News Stories on Zero Tolerance Policy
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Arrested for Doodling on a Desk? "Zero Tolerance" at Schools Is Going Way Too Far | | AlterNet
Thursday, February 25, 2010
My thoughts...
I feel like I need to clarify my thoughts on this entire situation. I believe Zane's school did a great job. I understand their need to ensure the students and staff at the school are safe - and I respect that. It was a process that in our situation worked as it should - and I have tremendous gratitude and respect for the Governing Board of ASA.
I never disagreed with the suspension (though I believe him missing nearly 3 weeks of school in this situation was harsh). Zane broke a rule, and I have no doubt as he continues to grow and learn, he'll break more - but never one such as this!
In moving forward, I hope that the Board of not only Zane's school, but many schools, in this State and elsewhere, practice their due diligence in researching the current statistics and studies on the detrimental effects of the Zero Tolerance Policy. Adopt language in your school handbooks that allows for a learning curve when there is no danger or safety concern. Treat our children as you would like to be treated. There are numerous studies stating Zero Tolerance Policies do NOT make/keep our schools any safer.
We all must take something away from this. I have expressed to my son many times now that he did indeed break a rule and is now suffering the consequences from this mistake. I want him to be an accountable human being.
I would highly recommend every school board member to read the Zero Tolerance Policies in Schools Fact Sheet created by the Consortium to Prevent School Violence. It could be a very useful tool in amending and updating your schools current policies to ensure you are sending the right message to our future - the children.
At the end of the day, we were all just doing our jobs. The administrators, the Board, the media, and the mom standing up for her child. Now let's move forward to a more positive future - and hopefully one in which common sense will continue to thrive...
I never disagreed with the suspension (though I believe him missing nearly 3 weeks of school in this situation was harsh). Zane broke a rule, and I have no doubt as he continues to grow and learn, he'll break more - but never one such as this!
In moving forward, I hope that the Board of not only Zane's school, but many schools, in this State and elsewhere, practice their due diligence in researching the current statistics and studies on the detrimental effects of the Zero Tolerance Policy. Adopt language in your school handbooks that allows for a learning curve when there is no danger or safety concern. Treat our children as you would like to be treated. There are numerous studies stating Zero Tolerance Policies do NOT make/keep our schools any safer.
We all must take something away from this. I have expressed to my son many times now that he did indeed break a rule and is now suffering the consequences from this mistake. I want him to be an accountable human being.
I would highly recommend every school board member to read the Zero Tolerance Policies in Schools Fact Sheet created by the Consortium to Prevent School Violence. It could be a very useful tool in amending and updating your schools current policies to ensure you are sending the right message to our future - the children.
At the end of the day, we were all just doing our jobs. The administrators, the Board, the media, and the mom standing up for her child. Now let's move forward to a more positive future - and hopefully one in which common sense will continue to thrive...
Monday, February 22, 2010
Media Coverage
I was thankful today that the media showed interest in Zane's story. Especially given the fact we're not rich. We're not famous. We're just normal people doing the best we can to help shape the future leaders of our world...
Here is the story about Zane and then they also ran an uncut interview with me as well.
Thanks Channel 3, Channel 15 and KATR Talk Radio (which will air in the morning)!
Here is the story about Zane and then they also ran an uncut interview with me as well.
Thanks Channel 3, Channel 15 and KATR Talk Radio (which will air in the morning)!
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Tomorrow...
will be the beginning of the third week that Zane has not been allowed to be in school. For shame...
Friday, February 19, 2010
Please sign the petition & help spread the word
Take a minute to write a comment on the petition when you sign it, as it will be printed out and taken to the hearing - especially if you know Zane personally!
Here is the link for the petition!
Here is the link for the petition!
Zane's Story
Zane + Mama
Most people don't think about bad policies or legislation until it affects you and your family personally.
Such is the case with the Zero Tolerance Policy at my son Zane's school. If you had asked me my thoughts on this policy a month ago, I may have even said I agreed with it and not given it a second thought. But not now. Not after our "situation" and what I've found in doing research. What I found, and what has happened, is APPALLING to me.
My son Zane Champion just turned 11 years old on February 12th - Abe Lincoln's Birthday. He's not a perfect kid, but he's a good kid, a smart kid. He still plays with Legos, makes origami, plays the cello, guitar and piano, is an amazing brother, attends rallies with me, volunteers to feed the homeless, is an incredible public speaker, writes fantastic stories and poetry, paints and likes to ride his bike.
Zane
Zane gets in trouble for the usual boy stuff - teasing girls, horse-play, and sometimes being too talkative and overly-exuberant in class. Kid stuff. Zane is in 5th grade.
We were so excited and proud when Zane was accepted into Arizona School of the Arts for their very first 5th grade class. We planned on him attending this prestigious charter school in Downtown Phoenix through 12th grade. Zane loves this school and has made many friends.
As I'm a single mom with my own business, I have again and again given thanks that my son could receive this type of education for free. Though the school lacks any type of physical exercise or recess, Zane has cello, piano, and voice lessons daily along with academic classes that challenge and inspire him.
Two months ago, Zane's father Nate told us that he would be moving to San Diego. I am good friends with my ex-husband and have successfully been co-parenting with him for over 6 years. Though I support his move, I knew the transition would be hard on Zane, so I informed his teachers of the impending move as I like to keep an open line of communication to stay involved in his education. He has gotten in trouble for splashing water at a girl after a rain storm and talking too much in cello class. Again, kid stuff.
Zane's dad lives in Cottonwood (an hour and a half north of Phoenix,) so I usually put Zane on a shuttle right after school every other Friday to go stay with his dad for the weekend. This is what took place on Friday, February 5th. All Zane had with him was his school book bag.
Zane & Zoe at rally
Nate has been packing and going over things getting ready for his move in March. While doing this, he has been putting aside things for Zane's "treasure box." Things such as photos, skeleton keys and coins. Boy stuff.
That weekend visit, one of the things that Nate had put aside for Zane was a little 2 inch penknife. The kind of penknife my grandfather used to use to clean his fingernails. I hope you see where this is headed...
Zane threw the penknife into the outside pocket of his book bag. The pocket where he keeps his pencils and pens. Neither Nate or Zane informed me about the penknife - probably because they didn't give it any thought. I myself am guilty of almost always having a Swiss Army knife on me - Girl Scout that I was - and have even forgotten it was in my bag when going to court for my work.
Zane went to school on Monday forgetting that he'd thrown the penknife from his dad into his bag. A mistake I'm sure he'll NEVER make again. A mistake... While standing in line for class, Zane reached into that front pocket to get a pen. He felt the penknife, did a "what's this?" and made the mistake of pulling it out to look at it. Upon seeing it, he immediately knew that it shouldn't have come to school with him, but before he could get it put away, a boy standing next to him shouted "Teacher - Zane has a knife!" Zane explained the situation to the teacher, who took the knife away from him and told him he could get it back after school. Some of the kids started teasing Zane about the knife.
At the end of the day, Zane was called into the Vice Principal's office and told he would be suspended for 5 days due to the "Zero Tolerance Policy." I was called to the office to pick Zane up. When I got to the school, Zane was sitting on the bench outside of her office weeping uncontrollably. He told me what had happened.
Zane playing cello outside
I went into the office and the Vice Principal told me that Zane had explained what happened to her, that she believed the penknife had been brought to school in his bag by mistake, she knew he didn't intend to harm anyone, BUT, due to the school's Zero Tolerance Policy, Zane would be suspended for a minimum of 5 days, and could face EXPULSION!
When we got home from school, Zane, not prompted by me, sat down and wrote an apology letter to the ASA teachers and staff asking that they give him a chance. Zane's dad wrote an email to the school and I did as well.
On Tuesday, February 16th, I sent an email to the school asking what was happening and whether or not Zane would be allowed to return to the school that coming Thursday. A day which he also had a cello recital that he had been looking forward to.
I received a phone call later that afternoon from the Vice Principal stating that they, the administrators, were recommending to the Board that Zane be EXPELLED. For an accident - a MISTAKE.
On Thursday morning, February 18th, I along with a family friend and attorney, Stephen Benedetto, attended a meeting with the Head of School, the Principal and the Vice Principal. All three women stated that they think Zane is a good kid and said they believe he didn't intentionally bring the penknife to school or harm anyone. BUT they stood by their decision to recommend EXPULSION, basically saying their hands were tied by the Zero Tolerance Policy, and that the expulsion decision would now rest with the school's Governing Board, at a closed Board hearing that will be taking place on Tuesday, February 23rd at 5:30 p.m. at the ASA Campus.
Because I felt like my son was going through enough with his dad's upcoming move, and because I didn't want him to be unjustly and unfairly "labled" on his permanant school record, I told the administrators I would consider voluntarily withdrawing him from school if they could assure me the "mistake" would be kept off of his school record. I was told I'd receive a phone call.
Zane+Dad
I did receive the phone call from the Head of School later that day, saying the Board would have to follow through with the expulsion proceedings due again, to the ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY, but if I withdrew him, she would recommend to the Board that they not follow through (but they still could if they thought it was best.) She said she knew there was no malice on Zane's part, and had given the Board the details - including the fact that Zane's dad would soon be moving.
When I called Zane after the meeting to talk to him about the possibility of withdrawing him from his school, he started crying. He told me: "But I love my school. All of my friends are there. Why are they doing this to me?"
Zane
This made me angry. Why ARE they doing this to him - to our family? We don't live in a black & white world - there are many shades of gray. How do I, as a mother, teach my child about democracy and justice with a "one punishment fits all" policy? What will expelling my child from the school he loves teach him??? To lie at all costs? To give up? To never admit you made a mistake?
How has our society reached a point where a school administrator is not allowed to use good old-fashioned common sense and make a judgement call? It was a mistake. There was no intent to harm - no malice. They even said so. It should be simple - but it's not.
Because of the Zero Tolerance Policy within our schools across the Nation, good kids are being punished and treated like they're criminals on a daily basis. Just do a Google search on Zero Tolerance Policy + schools and read the stories for yourself. It's alarming!
Of COURSE weapons and drugs have NO place and don't belong in our schools, but the "punishment" should fit the "crime." When we're expelling good kids left and right out of the school system for minor things and mistakes, we've come to a dark place within our society.
A dark place that is negatively affecting our most treasured segment - our children -
OUR FUTURE.
Zane + Leah
Most people don't think about bad policies or legislation until it affects you and your family personally.
Such is the case with the Zero Tolerance Policy at my son Zane's school. If you had asked me my thoughts on this policy a month ago, I may have even said I agreed with it and not given it a second thought. But not now. Not after our "situation" and what I've found in doing research. What I found, and what has happened, is APPALLING to me.
My son Zane Champion just turned 11 years old on February 12th - Abe Lincoln's Birthday. He's not a perfect kid, but he's a good kid, a smart kid. He still plays with Legos, makes origami, plays the cello, guitar and piano, is an amazing brother, attends rallies with me, volunteers to feed the homeless, is an incredible public speaker, writes fantastic stories and poetry, paints and likes to ride his bike.
Zane
Zane gets in trouble for the usual boy stuff - teasing girls, horse-play, and sometimes being too talkative and overly-exuberant in class. Kid stuff. Zane is in 5th grade.
We were so excited and proud when Zane was accepted into Arizona School of the Arts for their very first 5th grade class. We planned on him attending this prestigious charter school in Downtown Phoenix through 12th grade. Zane loves this school and has made many friends.
As I'm a single mom with my own business, I have again and again given thanks that my son could receive this type of education for free. Though the school lacks any type of physical exercise or recess, Zane has cello, piano, and voice lessons daily along with academic classes that challenge and inspire him.
Two months ago, Zane's father Nate told us that he would be moving to San Diego. I am good friends with my ex-husband and have successfully been co-parenting with him for over 6 years. Though I support his move, I knew the transition would be hard on Zane, so I informed his teachers of the impending move as I like to keep an open line of communication to stay involved in his education. He has gotten in trouble for splashing water at a girl after a rain storm and talking too much in cello class. Again, kid stuff.
Zane's dad lives in Cottonwood (an hour and a half north of Phoenix,) so I usually put Zane on a shuttle right after school every other Friday to go stay with his dad for the weekend. This is what took place on Friday, February 5th. All Zane had with him was his school book bag.
Zane & Zoe at rally
Nate has been packing and going over things getting ready for his move in March. While doing this, he has been putting aside things for Zane's "treasure box." Things such as photos, skeleton keys and coins. Boy stuff.
That weekend visit, one of the things that Nate had put aside for Zane was a little 2 inch penknife. The kind of penknife my grandfather used to use to clean his fingernails. I hope you see where this is headed...
Zane threw the penknife into the outside pocket of his book bag. The pocket where he keeps his pencils and pens. Neither Nate or Zane informed me about the penknife - probably because they didn't give it any thought. I myself am guilty of almost always having a Swiss Army knife on me - Girl Scout that I was - and have even forgotten it was in my bag when going to court for my work.
Zane went to school on Monday forgetting that he'd thrown the penknife from his dad into his bag. A mistake I'm sure he'll NEVER make again. A mistake... While standing in line for class, Zane reached into that front pocket to get a pen. He felt the penknife, did a "what's this?" and made the mistake of pulling it out to look at it. Upon seeing it, he immediately knew that it shouldn't have come to school with him, but before he could get it put away, a boy standing next to him shouted "Teacher - Zane has a knife!" Zane explained the situation to the teacher, who took the knife away from him and told him he could get it back after school. Some of the kids started teasing Zane about the knife.
At the end of the day, Zane was called into the Vice Principal's office and told he would be suspended for 5 days due to the "Zero Tolerance Policy." I was called to the office to pick Zane up. When I got to the school, Zane was sitting on the bench outside of her office weeping uncontrollably. He told me what had happened.
Zane playing cello outside
I went into the office and the Vice Principal told me that Zane had explained what happened to her, that she believed the penknife had been brought to school in his bag by mistake, she knew he didn't intend to harm anyone, BUT, due to the school's Zero Tolerance Policy, Zane would be suspended for a minimum of 5 days, and could face EXPULSION!
When we got home from school, Zane, not prompted by me, sat down and wrote an apology letter to the ASA teachers and staff asking that they give him a chance. Zane's dad wrote an email to the school and I did as well.
On Tuesday, February 16th, I sent an email to the school asking what was happening and whether or not Zane would be allowed to return to the school that coming Thursday. A day which he also had a cello recital that he had been looking forward to.
I received a phone call later that afternoon from the Vice Principal stating that they, the administrators, were recommending to the Board that Zane be EXPELLED. For an accident - a MISTAKE.
On Thursday morning, February 18th, I along with a family friend and attorney, Stephen Benedetto, attended a meeting with the Head of School, the Principal and the Vice Principal. All three women stated that they think Zane is a good kid and said they believe he didn't intentionally bring the penknife to school or harm anyone. BUT they stood by their decision to recommend EXPULSION, basically saying their hands were tied by the Zero Tolerance Policy, and that the expulsion decision would now rest with the school's Governing Board, at a closed Board hearing that will be taking place on Tuesday, February 23rd at 5:30 p.m. at the ASA Campus.
Because I felt like my son was going through enough with his dad's upcoming move, and because I didn't want him to be unjustly and unfairly "labled" on his permanant school record, I told the administrators I would consider voluntarily withdrawing him from school if they could assure me the "mistake" would be kept off of his school record. I was told I'd receive a phone call.
Zane+Dad
I did receive the phone call from the Head of School later that day, saying the Board would have to follow through with the expulsion proceedings due again, to the ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY, but if I withdrew him, she would recommend to the Board that they not follow through (but they still could if they thought it was best.) She said she knew there was no malice on Zane's part, and had given the Board the details - including the fact that Zane's dad would soon be moving.
When I called Zane after the meeting to talk to him about the possibility of withdrawing him from his school, he started crying. He told me: "But I love my school. All of my friends are there. Why are they doing this to me?"
Zane
This made me angry. Why ARE they doing this to him - to our family? We don't live in a black & white world - there are many shades of gray. How do I, as a mother, teach my child about democracy and justice with a "one punishment fits all" policy? What will expelling my child from the school he loves teach him??? To lie at all costs? To give up? To never admit you made a mistake?
How has our society reached a point where a school administrator is not allowed to use good old-fashioned common sense and make a judgement call? It was a mistake. There was no intent to harm - no malice. They even said so. It should be simple - but it's not.
Because of the Zero Tolerance Policy within our schools across the Nation, good kids are being punished and treated like they're criminals on a daily basis. Just do a Google search on Zero Tolerance Policy + schools and read the stories for yourself. It's alarming!
Of COURSE weapons and drugs have NO place and don't belong in our schools, but the "punishment" should fit the "crime." When we're expelling good kids left and right out of the school system for minor things and mistakes, we've come to a dark place within our society.
A dark place that is negatively affecting our most treasured segment - our children -
OUR FUTURE.
Zane + Leah
I have always found that mercy bears richer fruits than strict justice. - Abraham Lincoln
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